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ALEXIA-17, SENIOR

“Science Leadership Academy”  

Helllllooo World...Well I'm Alexia and this is My second year participating in Abstinence is Kool...When I first decided to take the pledge last year I was 16 years old working at Rita's Water Ice, I was cleaning up one day when I heard Kendra on the radio talking about this new group that she wanted to start called "Abstinence is Kool..I'm not doing it . So that night I went home and sent Kendra an E-mail telling her that I wanted to join this group. I was a junior in High School at the time, and also living with the chronic illness, Lupus. Taking care of my Lupus is a major responsibility, it has also helped me to mature and make wise choices regarding my health both physical and sexual. Kendra emailed me that October letting me know that she wanted me to come to the radio station to talk about why I decided to take the pledge. I never really took the time to sit down and actually say why I truly took the pledge until now, I'm a very optimistic person and I dare to be different. I was never that girl who thought that I had to have sex to fit in, but I was that girl who thought I was weird because I was 16 and still a virgin. I’ve been rejected by guys so many times because I was not willing to” give it up". I felt alone at times not only was I not ready to have sex but I also had Lupus. Abstinence is Kool has impacted my life in such an overwhelming way, not only am I no longer afraid to say I'm not having sex I finally have people around me who feel the same way. Sex has soooo many responsibilities these days and I'm just not ready to take them on. I'm almost done my senior year in

high school and I will be a college freshman this fall. Abstinence Is Kool is really an inspiration to me because now I really know that it is okay to be different. I used to think that it was something wrong with me because I wanted to be different, I didn't want to have sex and now I know that there is not a thing wrong with Alexia Tonayé Davis. I have dreams, I have goals, and I have my whole life to be a woman. I loveeeeeeeeee Kendra so much you know I feel as though I can talk to her about anything, and I want her to know how thankful I am for her putting this whole thing together. I would have never imagined this two years ago and here I am sitting here writing this blog on why I chose to take the Abstinence Is Kool pledge for the second year in a row.... and I'm going to keep on pushing. To all girls everywhere who are reading this it's not to late, even if you are having sex or not. Say it to yourself Abstinence is Kool.I'm Not Doing It! If you start standing up for yourself, and your body then you will start getting the respect that you deserve. My siteeeeerrrrssssssss of AIK I LOVEEE YOUUUU GUYSSSSS...and to my girlies who are taking the pledge again this year...YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYYYYYY.... I'm just so thankful to God that I finally have a place where I can actually feel comfortable with the path that I'm taking in life. This just proves that you don’t to have Sex to be cool because the AIK girls are not having sex and we are so fresh so and Kool..Kool[=! We are allll of that because as Trey Songz would say Yuuuuuuuppppp ABSTINENCE IS KOOL I'M NOT DOING IT...[=!  Smooches Loves...[=!!

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